People are bitchy because they are not getting their needs met
Needs are communication, companionship and sex
People who don’t get their needs met
Are anxious and frustrated and hostile
Then they become depressed
Which ultimately is a terminal illness
Treatable and curable
So when we lose someone for whatever reason
We are often told to wait before getting our needs met
When they haven’t been met for sometime
This is highly irrational
The sooner you have communication, companionship and sex
The better.
There is no guilt, obligation and fear
In feeling better
Feeling better is an adult self care responsibility
