A sign that the effects of a narcissist relationship are starting to dissipate is one of looking forward to the future instead of seeing it as a chore to be endured, medicated by overindulgence in feel good behaviors: drugs, alcohol and food . Forget sex, depressed men don’t have erections, what happens to women I have no idea. So on top of anxiety and depression, victims of narcissism get side effects, if they want an erection.